Tyler’s Torah Thoughts for 3 Iyar, 5785
18th Day of the Omer

Good morning! As we are continuing the healing journey, today’s theme is right on point.  We look at the “determination of compassion.”

How often do we get the instinct or thought to reach out to someone in compassion – and yet don’t engage because we feel overwhelmed?  Or how often do we avoid self care for ourselves because we aren’t determined enough to show our selves compassion?

Can we determine today – not try – not attempt – but decide? To just be.  And in our being? Be compassionate.

These are my thoughts. What are yours?

Here are my thoughts from last year:

Shabbat Shalom!  Today we finish out a tough parsha.  And focus on the 18^th day of the Omer.  Today’s theme?  The determination of compassion”

From Chabad:

Is my compassion enduring and consistent? Is it reliable or whimsical? Does it prevail among other forces in my life? Do I have the capacity to be compassionate even when I’m busy with other activities or only when it’s comfortable for me? Am I ready to stand up and fight for another?

Exercise for the day: In middle of the busy day take a moment and call someone that needs a compassionate word. Defend someone who is in need of sympathy even if it’s not a popular position.

I love this. The idea of being determined with our compassion – instead of being passive is important. Do we engage and initiate? Or do we wait for the opportunities to come to us? If we feel into our hearts, who needs our compassion? Can we be determined to provide that, even if they aren’t initiating it?

And. Where within me do I need to bring compassion? Actively?